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In challenging seasons trust that God is present and presiding. An article by Mary Diggs

Managing Challenging Seasons

I have a good friend who has a saying, “Everybody has STUFF!” That’s her way of saying each of us has our own set of challenges. It’s usually her response…
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Kay Warren Article

Joy in Challenging Seasons

Today, I’m sharing an interview between my daughter Chrystal Hurst and Kay Warren. Kay is the wife of Pastor Rick Warren of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, California.
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Shalom

The Shalom of the Lord

I have been overwhelmed with the full meaning of the word shalom this year. It has been a rhema word that has brought me great comfort in 2018
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Fullfillment

Fulfillment

As a pastor’s wife for 20 years, I have over and over again, seen people search for means of fulfilling themselves. I find it truly heartbreaking to watch.
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You Are a Child of the King

You Are a Child of the King

The story has been told of the Queen of England attending a banquet with her daughter. Several hours into the evening, the Queen’s daughter began to get bored, and started…
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Choose the Better Thing

Choose the Better Thing

One thing that I have noticed over the many years that I have served as a wife to a minister is that staleness can creep into a woman’s life when…
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What's in Your Hand

What’s in Your Hand

Friend, do you ever feel like you are in an obscure place, living off in the middle of nowhere, or anonymously dwelling in a crowd, with no particular gifts or…
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Taking the Next Step

Taking the Next Step

A lot of what God wants to do in your life won’t be done until you do what He has already revealed to you. When my children were growing up,…
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The Beauty of Protection

The Beauty of Protection

Recently, my husband and I went to Estes Park for a few days, to spend some time together. Upon our arrival, we very quickly noticed that elk were everywhere.
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Deep Waters

Deep Waters

As I read this verse, I am struck by the first word. It does not say IF you experience trials, rather,  it says WHEN you experience them.
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Spinning Your Own Wheels

Spinning Your Own Wheels

I remember many years ago on a day when I had become ill. I had gone to see my doctor, and after arriving at the diagnosis, the doctor prescribed some…
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Find the Standard

Find the Standard

One thing that I have noticed over the many years that I have served as a wife to a minister is that staleness can creep into a woman’s life when…
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Put on Love

Put on Love

Paul tells us, that above all things we are to put on love. As love is the chief of virtues, and all the others grow out of love.
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Rising Above the Grief

Rising Above the Grief

I read of a woman named Sarah who went on a missions trip to Ukraine. During her time there, she befriended a 12-year-old orphan girl named Bogdana, who proved to…
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Silver Linings

Silver Linings

I have faced criticism in my life, as both a pastor’s wife and a human. I have come to the realization that although it hurts, not everybody is going to…
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Hearing the Voice of God

Hearing the Voice of God

Have you taken the time to listen lately? While the numbers suggested by experts vary dramatically, it can be safely assumed that the average person speaks millions of words in…
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Are You Truly Content

Are You Truly Content?

During our seminary years, when all Tony and I could feast on was ground beef, I developed several ways to cook what we affectionately called “seminary steak.”
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Fighting Fear with the Word

Early in our marriage, Tony traveled frequently, which meant I was home with young children. Fear riddled me in the night. I worried constantly about Tony’s safety.
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Are You Feeling Captive?

Are You Feeling Captive?

I remember feeling captive during heavy child-rearing years with Tony working long hours. As women, we have to be aware of our feelings so we don’t take them out on…
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Success God's Way

Success God’s Way

Our success doesn’t hinge on what the culture at-large says or does, or how others act toward us, or even the outcome of our circumstances.
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Alone With Nothing

Alone With Nothing!

I’ve been going to my local coffee shop to write. I have a place at home but there have been instances when I can’t use it.
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God's Call on Your Life

God’s Call on Your Life

God’s call on your life as a pastor’s wife is about relationships.  The primary relationship is to God himself, then your relationship to yourself, your mate, your family, and your church. 
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Expectations of a Pastor’s Wife

The “pastor’s wife” role scares me because I feel it brings a lot of expectation and people think you are perfect. How do I keep the right perspective and do what…
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Letting The Word Be At Home

Letting The Word Be At Home

Is God’s Word at home in your heart? The word dwell in today’s verse means to make oneself at home. Paul doesn’t just want us to hear the Word
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Posting a Guard

Posting a Guard

In his classic book True Spirituality, the late Frances Schaeffer said that the true spiritual battle and the loss of victory are always in the thought world.
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Doing It All

Doing It All

The feminist movement of the last thirty years has given us a lot of angry and frustrated women who are determined to prove to themselves and everyone else——particularly to men—that…
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Smiling Through Your Tears

Smiling Through Your Tears

My sister in Christ, I want to share a special word of hope and encouragement with you today. God can enable you to smile in spite of your tears.
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“Friendly” Church Members

“Friendly” Church Members

During our Live Web Event on marriage, the question was asked how we as pastors’ wives should handle a female church member’s “friendliness” toward our husbands.
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It's Ok To Be Different

It’s Ok To Be Different

We all face tremendous pressure to be like everyone else. No one wants to feel like the odd person out. I remember that growing up, I was always the one…
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The Key to Real Power

The Key to Real Power

The Trinity is made up of three co equal Persons who are one is essence: God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.
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The Safeguard

The Safeguard

I had noticed her looking at him, laughing a little too loud, practically swooning over the brilliance of his sermons and cleverness of his insights.
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A Quiet Place

A Quiet Place

I hope you have a quiet place where you can be alone with the Lord each day, a place where you can shut out the world for a few minutes…
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Something to Get Excited About

Something to Get Excited About

There’s a painting by the great artist Rembrandt that says it all for me at Christmas. The scene is the manger of Bethlehem. The painting focuses my attention exclusively on…
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Stay Close and Get Fed

Stay Close and Get Fed

Some friends of ours like to feed the birds when they go to the beach. On one occasion, they tell us, a large flock of birds gathered to receive the…
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Adjusting to the Dark

Adjusting to the Dark

I was no longer the pastor’s wife and my husband was no longer the pastor. Three days earlier Rick had been killed in a tragic car accident and I was…
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Rejoice. Pray. Trust.

Rejoice. Pray. Trust.

When our commitments lead us into storms, if we want to have resurrection power for today, we have to put three principles to work: R.P.T.—Rejoice, Pray, Trust.
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A Psalm of Comfort

A Psalm of Comfort

The words of Psalms have always been a source of comfort and strength for me. They are filled with God’s promises to provide strength for the weak, comfort for the…
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Praying with Confidence

Praying with Confidence

How can you pray with the confidence you’ll hear from God? The apostle John says there is a direct correlation between our abiding relationship with Christ and productive prayer (John…
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Speak Words of Life

Speak Words of Life

In times of discouragement it’s essential to speak life to yourself. Proverbs 18:21 tells us, “Words kill, words give life; they’re either poison or fruit—you choose” (The Message).
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Equipped for your Calling

Equipped for your Calling

Perhaps there have been times in your life when you’ve felt like running from what God was calling you to do. If so, you wouldn’t be the first person who’s…
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You Matter

You Matter

Every Christian has a specific call from God. The prophet Jeremiah received that call when he was a child. God spoke directly to him and said, “Before I formed you…
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How I Lost 9 Pounds in 7 Days

A Kingdom Woman’s Prayer…

Lord, You know my name. You see me and you care. You know where I’ve been and where I’m going. You are always present, always moving, and always ready to…
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Avoiding the Squeeze

Avoiding the Squeeze

ur spiritual condition is changed in an instant when we receive Christ and become joint heirs with him; at that point we become entitled to everything He has.
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Too Perfect

Too Perfect?

Whenever I wonder how a Christian wife and mother can find the time and energy to do all the things she needs to do, a biblical image comes to mind:…
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What Will They Remember Most?

One of the most important things your children should know about you is that you are always ready to encourage them. This does not mean you have to ignore their…
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Put Your Mask On First

When you are in an airplane preparing for takeoff, the flight attendant instructs you on how to use the plane’s oxygen system in case of emergency. You’re told to put…
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How Prayer Shapes Your Life

How Prayer Shapes Your Life

Our Lord’s teaching about prayer is amazing. Simple, but at the same time so amazingly profound that we are apt to miss His meaning. The danger is to water down…
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Too Hurt to Serve

Too Hurt to Serve

I can remember when everyone wanted a gold rope chain necklace to wear around their necks. Some people focused on how big the width of the rope was.
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